Wow, the questions I have about how long a dildo I can insert into my pussy! This is a totally embarrassing to talk about topic – let alone write about – but it’s one of those things that I guess a lot of us girls have wondered.
I’ve done some research on the ol’ internet and some girls say they can fit a whole dildo or vibrator up there with no problem. That’s great if it works for you, but personally, I’m not into it.
The thing is, I have a small frame so more significant sized shapes don’t really work for me. Like, the thought of sticking something huge up there just freaks me out. I was feeling really frustrated until I ran into an article that recommended trying something more slender and light.
That’s when I bought my current dildo, and oh my god, it was life-changing! At first it was a little weird, but I started using a ton of lube and moving it really slow, and it felt amazing.
So that brings me back to the question of “how long a dildo can you insert into your pussy?”. And my answer is, I opt for something lightweight and slender, no more than nine-inch long. It works for my frame and it’s perfect for solo or massage time.
But even with the slimmer shapes that weren’t usually my style, I was curious about what other kinds of sensual resources that I could use. That curiosity quickly lead me to explore the different kinds of objects I could use – like a modified spoon or kitchen utensils (they were especially fun!). It was crazy how I could broaden my horizons just by trusting my instincts and experimenting with a few different shapes of toys.
For those of you who prefer vibrators, I have a few tips for finding something suitable. Before actually trying it, I always look for reviews to see what other women have said about it. It’s really important to check the recommended size of the toy. If it’s too long or too wide for your frame, it won’t be comfortable and it’s better to stick with something more suitable.
When it came to specific types of dildos, I tried something called ‘double dildo’, which is pretty neat. It made me laugh at first but oh la la, it was quite a surprise! What it does is allow you to enter both a larger-sized and a smaller-sized dildo at the same time. It’s intense and I can’t recommend it enough!
Using various lubricants with dildos is also important. I favour a water-based lube as it is gentler and doesn’t ruin the toys, but silicone-based lube is also really good for a smoother experience. When searching for lubricants, try to go for something vagina-friendly and, if possible, non-staining.
Finally, it’s really important to keep your toys clean and hygienic. I usually invest in a toy cleanser for this and spray it on the toy after using it, then rinse it off with lukewarm water. As an extra precaution, I wrap it tightly in a tissue paper and store it away from sunlight.
Of course, all of this depends on what works for you. Your own safety and comfort is the most important and what works for others might not be the best for you. I hope these tips help you find the perfect toy that fits your needs!