Ahh, the age-old question: How can one try not to cum during male masturbation? It’s a tough one, but it doesn’t have to be a struggle, and if you take the right approach, you can learn to control your orgasms and get the most out of the experience.
The first thing to understand is that male masturbation is all about control. Your goal should be to get to the point where you can control the sensations and your arousal levels. You want to be able to go from the point of “Oh wow, this is amazing!” to “Okay, I can keep this going for a while!” This control is key, and the more control you have, the more mindfulness you can bring to the experience.
The second thing to note is that patience is key. If you can, start with some gentle stroking before building up intensity. Don’t bombard yourself with stimulation right away. That can only lead to premature ejaculation. Focus on long strokes with minimal force, and get yourself used to the sensation. This really helps build endurance and control.
Thirdly, breathing is really important. It might sound silly, but it really works. When you start feeling close to orgasm, take a few deep breaths to help ground yourself. Notice your breath going in and out, and just focus on that. When you feel like the sensation is too intense, exhale slowly and try to focus on the feeling in your body, rather than just the pleasure.
Fourthly, engaging with your fantasies can help give you more control. Instead of anticlimactic moments where you just cum and that’s it, try to visualize a more intense, drawn out experience. Imagine your fantasies unfolding in your mind, and the more interesting they get, the longer you can hold off on cumming.
Fifthly, stay in the moment. One of the fastest ways to lose your hard-earned control is by thinking about exes or anything else that’s not relevant to your current experience. Learn to stay completely present and focused on your sensations, and don’t let your thoughts wander.
And last but not least, give yourself permission to enjoy the experience without putting pressure on yourself to cum. Don’t get too hung up on the actual orgasm. Take your time and just enjoy the journey – focus on all the wonderful sensations that you’re feeling.
These key points are the basics of learning how to control your orgasms during male masturbation. With a bit of practice and effort, you’ll be able to manage it and enjoy a much more fulfilling experience.
To take it a step further, you could incorporate toys, such as dildos and anal beads, into the experience. This can be a great way to start exploring new kinds of pleasure and sensations. Nipple clamps and cock rings are also good options for a bit of mild bondage play – and these can be great for stimulating different areas of the body and intensifying the sensations. Not to mention the fact that it can also be quite a liberating experience. Plus, knowing that you’ve got something on your genitals can help to control your arousal. Just make sure to be gentle.
Another option is ejaculation control. This is all about postponing orgasm by doing things like squeezing your penis when you’re close to cumming. Start by practicing this during sex dolls and masturbation, and with time you should be able to extend the experience as long as you’d like, and even choose when you want to cum. Just be aware that this can take some time and practice to master.
Finally, there’s the ever-popular “edging” technique. Edging is all about bringing yourself close to the point of no return, then backing off and calming yourself before repeating the cycle. Learning how to do this properly will take time and effort, but when you have it down you’ll be able to ride the waves of pleasure for as long as you want.
So to sum up, when it comes to trying not to cum during male masturbation, the main thing is gaining control and mindful awareness. With this in mind, start off gently with minimal pressure and work your way up gradually. Then, incorporate breathing and fantasies into the equation, as well as different toys and techniques. All of this should help you reach your goal and enjoy a more pleasurable experience.